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lulu letters: parenting a 5-year-old is painful
Parenting a 5-year-old is...painful. Stop growing already—and maybe try "Yes" more often.

James
1 day ago


lulu letters: parenting a 5-year-old is pure magic
Parenting a 5 1/2 year old is magical—and you are my fairy fireball. I love you 100 pounds.

James
May 6


lulu letters: 5-year-old winter
Growth spurts, reading, fashion, and wisdom: five-year-old development in all its glory.

James
Feb 6


lulu letters: now we are five
Five-year-old development is a wild ride. It's sassy, often narcissistic, and ridiculously sweet.

James
Nov 19, 2025


lulu letters: summer 2025
From firefly chases to protest signs, here's a taste of summer with Lulu, a feisty four-year-old fashion icon.

James
Jul 22, 2025


lulu letters: winter 2025
You might be the most passionate, emotionally aware, savvy four-year-old imaginable. And you know how to negotiate.

James
Apr 21, 2025


lulu letters: happy 2025
Your New Year's Resolution? "Leown." Four years old is too much fun...like a thousand.

James
Jan 15, 2025


lulu letters: this is four
This is what four years old looks like: a business-savvy, life-of-the-party, passionate spirit. Watch out.

James
Oct 20, 2024


lulu letters: spring & summer 2024
You've somehow shifted from toddler to girl—and I keep forgetting you're only three.

James
Jul 18, 2024


lulu letters: winter 2024
The winter of three (and a half) years old—and I'm already ruining your life.

James
Apr 9, 2024


lulu letters: happy new year
Happy New Year, my sweet. "What's happenin'," you ask? Here it goes.

James
Jan 8, 2024


lulu letters: now we are three
Welcome to the era of the threenager.

James
Oct 16, 2023


lulu letters: month 35
Dear Lulu...You started school, and we've officially decided to call this place home. What a month.

James
Sep 17, 2023


lulu letters: month 34
Dear Lulu...Eloquence, potty conquering...bedtime? Can't win 'em all.

James
Aug 15, 2023


lulu letters: month 33
Summer fun and NYC!!!! What an introduction.

James
Jul 23, 2023


lulu letters: month 32
Dear Lulu...Where the heck is Glinda?! My face hurts from trying to contain all the joy. Living the dream of you.

James
Jun 22, 2023


lulu letters: month 31
Dear Lulu...I want to freeze this moment and keep you at this age for so much longer than time will allow.

James
May 15, 2023


lulu letters: month 30
Dear Lulu...Sweetness and sass and 14-word sentences: This is 2 1/2.

James
Apr 16, 2023


lulu letters: month 29
Dear Lulu...Who says you can't reason with toddlers? I think you're way too smart for all of us.

James
Mar 15, 2023


lulu letters: month 28
Dear Lulu...Words are the #1 theme this month, and one word in particular: OWN!

James
Feb 20, 2023


lulu letters: month 27
Dear Lulu...You're a linguist, you count to 10, and you shriek as emphatically as you snuggle. Two is pretty fantastic.

James
Jan 16, 2023


lulu letters: month 26
Dear Lulu...You've started talking in full sentences, and every day is the epitome of fun, even with that two-year-old spunk.

James
Dec 18, 2022


lulu letters: month 25
Dear Lulu...Surprise! Yup, still here. You're just too darn astounding to stop writing about. At least for now.

James
Nov 16, 2022


lulu letters: two years
Dear Lulu...You are two years old, and all of my memories of you will never be memories of yours. This is why I write.

James
Oct 16, 2022


lulu letters: month 23
Dear Lulu...Month 23 was full of spirit, sass, curiosity, empathy, and adjustment to a new family reality.

James
Sep 15, 2022


lulu letters: month 22
Dear Lulu...Month 22 birthed our first real glimpse of "real" toddlerhood, and it's the greatest game ever.

James
Aug 15, 2022


lulu letters: month 21
Dear Lulu...Who knew that month 21 would be a developmental earthquake?! Here's how you shake our world...

James
Jul 14, 2022


lulu letters: month 20
Dear Lulu...You are my brilliant, curious, nature-loving, independent little woman...and words have arrived!

James
Jun 14, 2022


lulu letters: month 19
Dear Lulu...You understand everything, you make your wants known, and you are a little lady in all your greatness.

James
May 19, 2022


lulu letters: month 18
Dear Lulu...We've been breathing the same air for 18 months. I don't think I'll ever catch my breath again.

James
Apr 18, 2022


lulu letters: month 17
Dear Lulu...You are light, you are levity, you remind us to keep gratitude close. In your words, "Wowa."

James
Mar 15, 2022


lulu letters: month 16
Dear Lulu...You remain a tall force of nature who maintains a questionable relationship with sleep...and who finally has some words.

James
Feb 14, 2022


lulu letters: month 15
Dear Lulu...Christmas + COVID: This month is brought to you by the letter "C."

James
Jan 17, 2022


lulu letters: month 14
Dear Lulu...Some serious earthshaking happened this month, and you’re suddenly a little woman.

James
Dec 16, 2021


lulu letters: now we are one
You're a wild woman who knows what she wants, you understand basically everything...and you're only one.

James
Nov 16, 2021


lulu letters: one year
Dear Lulu...You are one year old, and I have no idea where to begin.

James
Oct 15, 2021


lulu letters: month 12
Dear Lulu...We made it one full year. At the tender age of one, you're somehow already a fully formed human.

James
Oct 15, 2021


lulu letters: month 11
Dear Lulu...You are a standing, clapping, flower monster, and everything is just around the corner.

James
Sep 16, 2021


lulu letters: month 10
Dear Lulu...You are officially a person: full of heart, spunk, courage, curiosity, and all kinds of passion.

James
Aug 16, 2021


lulu letters: month 9
Dear Lulu...You in a word? Dynamo. A nonstop bundle of wonder. Your Papa's energy and my independence. Look out.

James
Jul 18, 2021


lulu letters: month 8
Dear Lulu...You have changed so much this month. It's hard to capture everything in our fast-paced world!

James
Jun 15, 2021


lulu letters: month 7
Dear Lulu...You are everything. Okay, okay. I’ll be more specific.

James
May 16, 2021


lulu letters: month 6
Dear Lulu...You have been in this world for half a year, and I have to say: way to go, us.

James
Apr 15, 2021


lulu letters: month 5
Dear Lulu...We have ventured into new territories, and it has finally hit: I'm your Mama.

James
Mar 15, 2021


lulu letters: month 4
Dear Lulu...You are becoming a little person, so spirited, so strong, and with a smile that breaks me.

James
Feb 15, 2021


lulu letters: month 3, part 2
Dear Lulu...You are growing and changing so much. It's tough to keep up when everything is a "first!"

James
Jan 17, 2021


lulu letters: month 3, part 1
My love, This was a very exciting month, it being your first Christmas and all. So, let's start there...

James
Jan 3, 2021


lulu letters: month 2
Dear Lulu...We've journeyed through Month 2! And we're all feeling a little more human.

James
Dec 15, 2020


lulu letters: month 1
Dear Lulu...Month 1 was a whirlwind, but we made it! Thank goodness I took some notes, because it's all a blur...

James
Nov 30, 2020


lulu letters: birth story
Dear Baby...Your name is Emmylou. Our little Lulu. Let's begin with the story of your birth...

James
Nov 20, 2020
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