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what i did for love
We are who we are, but that doesn’t mean that we can’t evolve in relationships. Even you're a hormonal, raging lunatic, you do your best.
Feb 16, 2020


t.hanks
Whenever I feel a case of the "Mehs" coming on, I turn to a trusty word friend: "Wow." It's a spiritual practice that doesn't take much.
Nov 27, 2019


well, now we know
Some of the most powerful healing occurs when you know you're not alone.
Sep 11, 2019


Dances with Wolffs
Dancing with Wolves is great. But Dancing with WOLFFS?! Where to begin...This one's for them.
Aug 23, 2019


a tart and a pie
Celebrating anniversaries reminds you why you chose someone. And, if you're lucky, why you'd keep choosing them again and again.
Jul 30, 2019


o neg
Ever tried a Zero Negativity Challenge? It's surprisingly magical...especially for your sanity.
Jul 24, 2019


the love list
Marriage is a strange phenomenon. While a love contract can be a very helpful way to lay it on the table, here's my take on it.
Jul 22, 2018


when you're married to IKEA
IKEA is not perfect, but it does a lot of things right. In short, it's kind of the Mother of Relationship Metaphors.
May 21, 2018


people who fear plastic
There are two types of people: People who reuse plastic bags...and people who don't. Caring too much is a blessing and a curse.
May 14, 2018


i love those times when
Taking a stroll down memory lane can remind you of just how interesting you are.
Feb 20, 2018


love alignment
Valentine's Day is a great day to focus on relationships. And, like love, relationships are a doozy. But it is the best thing we do.
Feb 14, 2018


a very Wolff holiday
You can learn a lot about a family by how they typically spend their holidays. Here's a window into the Wolff way.
Dec 29, 2017


our family of hammers
My little sis turned 26 last week. It was a glorious celebration...almost as good as a family of hammers.
Dec 13, 2017


bakeaway with me
Time is among the most precious gifts, and perhaps the most painful loss. But, as KVB put it, "You never know where the miracle is."
Dec 12, 2017


sandy grain, i love you.
Ah, love. Four letters, one beautiful beast of a word.
Dec 4, 2017


freaking amazing humans
Humans are freaking amazing. We are a perfect, self-regulating bio-mechanical machine...and utterly lost and clueless 99% of the time.
Nov 18, 2017


how to be a scarface
When a "quick surgery" turns into "you might lose feeling in your face," you learn some great marriage lessons.
Oct 27, 2017


when Plan A means yes
Dating is a crapshoot, but sometimes you find a diamond in the rough. And, sometimes, Plan A is simply "Yes"--even after 9 weeks of dating.
Oct 18, 2017


Papa Wolff Surprise
Yesterday was my dad’s 65th birthday. So, Papa Wolff, this one's for you.
Oct 4, 2017


disappointing Donna Bride
First-time parenting allows you some leeway, but as a first-time wedding planner with no prior experience, you have one shot.
Sep 27, 2017
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